{"id":44,"date":"2011-09-25T19:55:08","date_gmt":"2011-09-25T23:55:08","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.craigperler.com\/blog\/?p=44"},"modified":"2024-06-06T23:26:29","modified_gmt":"2024-06-07T03:26:29","slug":"privacy-or-relationships-whats-more-valuable","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.craigperler.com\/blog\/2011\/09\/25\/privacy-or-relationships-whats-more-valuable\/","title":{"rendered":"Networking vs Digital Privacy?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>In the last few days, at the encouragement of <a title=\"Greg Coleman, CEO of criteo.com\" href=\"http:\/\/www.criteo.com\/about\/management#coleman\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Greg Coleman<\/a> of <a title=\"criteo.com\" href=\"http:\/\/www.criteo.com\/index.php\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">criteo.com<\/a>, my Digital Media Marketing professor at NYU Stern, I&#8217;ve embraced social media.\u00a0 I was hesitant to put myself out there on the web. I didn&#8217;t\/don&#8217;t want to shove my personal info down my friends&#8217; digital throats (who needs another bum rush of Facebook statuses?), plus, anything you post anywhere is basically permanent.  I&#8217;ve given in to networking instead of <a href=\"https:\/\/www.craigperler.com\/blog\/tag\/privacy\/\">digital privacy<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 id=\"klout\" class=\"wp-block-heading\">Klout<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>One has to decide which they value more: privacy and data ownership, or the dividends of putting one&#8217;s self out there on the ethers &#8211; dividends which supposedly include an extended network, reputation (or &#8220;<a title=\"Craig Perler's Klout\" href=\"http:\/\/klout.com\/#\/cperler\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Klout<\/a>&#8220;), and a greater sense of community or belonging on those sites you&#8217;ve only been passively monitoring. And there are also the derivatives of these dividends to consider: those experiences and opportunities that come from having the extended network, reputation, and level of involvement.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The great thing about holding tight to personal data is the knowing that third party companies like Facebook aren&#8217;t selling and re-selling each digital nugget as part of their billion-dollar marketing economy. So, pulling up the blinds feels like selling out; it feels like I&#8217;m giving my personal data away to these services &#8211; acknowledging that the benefit from being an active participant is worth the slightly more targeted ads, or the bit extra of email spam. And the thing is, these services don&#8217;t even care &#8211; they&#8217;re individual agnostic. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Facebook doesn&#8217;t care that I like Ayn Rand, Flickr doesn&#8217;t care that I recently went to Germany, and Twitter doesn&#8217;t care that I&#8217;ve just attempted following the 4-Hour Body (by Tim Ferriss) diet. There&#8217;s no trust between me and Facebook &#8211; they can screw me ten times over, and I might not even know about it. Terms of Use on all these site is <a title=\"Terms of (Ab)Use - Electronic Frontier Foundation\" href=\"https:\/\/www.eff.org\/issues\/terms-of-abuse\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">notoriously sketchy<\/a>, and my tiny bits of bytes hold no relative value.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 id=\"social-media-giving-up-digital-privacy-makes-me-sad\" class=\"wp-block-heading\">Social Media (Giving up Digital Privacy) Makes Me Sad<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>The network effect is a foul beast. I&#8217;m saddened to be giving in to social media; however, I&#8217;m saddened as well as intrigued. In a few days of toying around, I&#8217;ve seen that providing even small nuggets of personal information has generated responses. Friends have seen my Tweets and replied, and people I don&#8217;t know have started following me purely due to shared interests &#8211; not that I gain much from these interactions, but it&#8217;s neat. I can absolutely see how the network effect available with these site can amplify my own personal network. Further, the technologies are really cool. I&#8217;ve signed up with <a title=\"Craig Perler, Facebook\" href=\"http:\/\/www.facebook.com\/craig.perler\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Facebook<\/a>, <a title=\"Craig Perler, G+\" href=\"https:\/\/plus.google.com\/#103157963271963665808\/posts\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Google Plus<\/a>, <a title=\"Craig Perler, Twitter\" href=\"http:\/\/twitter.com\/#!\/cperler\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Twitter<\/a>, <a title=\"Craig Perler, Flickr\" href=\"http:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/cperler\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Flickr<\/a>, <a title=\"Craig Perler, LinkedIn\" href=\"http:\/\/www.linkedin.com\/pub\/craig-perler\/1\/b01\/436\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">LinkedIn<\/a>, <a title=\"Craig Perler, Reddit\" href=\"http:\/\/www.reddit.com\/user\/cperler\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Reddit<\/a>, <a title=\"Craig Perler, FourSquare\" href=\"https:\/\/foursquare.com\/cperler\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Foursquare <\/a>(I&#8217;m not quite ready to share locations though, that&#8217;s still a bit too much for me), <a title=\"Craig Perler, Meetup\" href=\"http:\/\/www.meetup.com\/members\/20010241\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Meetup <\/a>and <a title=\"Craig Perler, Klout\" href=\"http:\/\/klout.com\/#\/cperler\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Klout <\/a>&#8211; and they all talk to each other!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I&#8217;m impressed. As much as I value my privacy, giving up some seems worthwhile considering the possibilities available by being an active member of the digital community. I&#8217;ve certainly taken fair advantage of reviews from Amazon, Yelp and TripAdvisor, for example.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Well done social media, you win this round.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>In the last few days, at the encouragement of Greg Coleman of criteo.com, my Digital Media Marketing professor at NYU Stern, I&#8217;ve embraced social media.\u00a0 I was hesitant to put&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":1760,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[177],"tags":[],"powerkit_post_featured":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-44","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-topical"},"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.craigperler.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/09\/pexels-photo-267350.jpeg?fit=1792%2C1300&ssl=1","jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p1SwZ6-I","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.craigperler.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/44","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.craigperler.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.craigperler.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.craigperler.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.craigperler.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=44"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/www.craigperler.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/44\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1762,"href":"https:\/\/www.craigperler.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/44\/revisions\/1762"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.craigperler.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1760"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.craigperler.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=44"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.craigperler.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=44"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.craigperler.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=44"},{"taxonomy":"powerkit_post_featured","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.craigperler.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/powerkit_post_featured?post=44"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}